Now that we understand what coaching is, let’s explore how to apply it in real conversations inside your veterinary clinic.
In Part 1 of our series, we explored the incredible value of coaching in veterinary practice.
We examined the inherent contrasts between coaching and mentoring, and explained how coaching utilises the art of asking questions to foster growth, independence, and inspiration within your veterinary team.
In Part 2, we take the coaching playbook to the next level with information that equips you with the tools to have well-structured coaching conversations to elevate your veterinary team’s experience and transform your approach to leadership.
Demystifying Coaching
As we’ve discussed previously, mentoring is a critical component of team development, particularly when it comes to clinical competencies, such as patient care and practice procedures.
Being passionate about the work we do, many of us feel a natural inclination to provide immediate answers when our team members seek guidance. But, as we’ve learned in Part 1, coaching flips the script. It’s not about solving problems; it’s about asking the right questions.
Curiosity is the cornerstone of good coaching.
Staying curious as a default emotional response to interactions with your team members can reshape your mindset as a leader, fostering better relationships and facilitating learning.
Ignite Brilliance with Structured Coaching
You’re probably thinking “okay, stay curious, but let’s get down to tactics”. Before we do, let’s address a common concern.
We need to be clear: coaching isn’t some mystical skill, it’s simply a form of questioning that adds value to everyday conversations, making them more insightful and impactful.
Coaching can be seamlessly integrated into your day-to-day interactions by embracing curiosity and supporting your team members to find solutions through asking open-ended questions.
But first, for coaching to be effective, two conditions must be met:
☑️ Equipped to Answer: The person being coached needs to have the knowledge or experience to answer your questions.
☑️ Focused Listening: As the coach, you must learn to listen to understand, instead of jumping in with your advice or opinions. This is called the Advice Monster and you’ll meet this nemesis in Part 3.
The G.R.O.W Model
Casual coaching involves changing your response style to encourage team members to think harder about their thoughts. On the formal side, we introduce the G.R.O.W. model: Goal, Reality, Options, and Way Forward.
🌱 Goal: Where do you want to go?
🌱 Reality: Where are you now in relation to your goal?
🌱 Options: What possible paths can you take to reach it?
🌱 Way Forward: What’s the first step?
While this structure may appear complex, it’s a tool – a framework – to keep your conversation on track, leading to more effective coaching sessions that guide your team members to positive outcomes.
And when you ask a question, don’t fear silence; it’s your ally! Letting a moment linger after asking a question gives your team members the time they may need to reflect and formulate their thoughts.
In Part 3, we’ll arm you with strategies to tame the notorious Advice Monster and gain full control over your coaching and mentoring interactions.